Introduction When you join a new company, someone will probably tell you, “Don’t worry. Just take some time to settle in.” It sounds like good advice. After all, starting a new job can be overwhelming. There are new people, processes, systems, expectations, and ways of working. Naturally, you need time to understand your surroundings. But there is a problem with the “settle in” mindset. If you spend your first few months simply waiting to feel comfortable, you may lose the most valuable period of your transition. Your first 90 days are not just a period for settling in. They are a period for learning, building relationships, creating credibility, and understanding how you can make an impact. Why “Just Settle In” Can Hold You Back When people are told to settle in, they often become passive. They attend meetings, complete assigned tasks, observe what others are doing, and wait for someone to tell them what they should focus on. There is nothing wrong with observing. In ...
Introduction Manson’s law of avoidance came into existence through his personal experiences and keen observations. His profession and psychologists played a big role and helped him analyse and come up with this theory. In many of his observations, he noted patterns in behaviours of those who avoided difficult emotions or situations, leading him to come up with the 5 laws of avoidance. His law of avoidance encourages people to face their fears and challenges, only because avoidance can end you up in much more pain and suffering in the long run. The laws support the idea of facing your fears, as eventually, that leads to personal development and your overall growth as a human being. Manson’s law of avoidance has come into a trend as people are able to resonate and overcome their fears by standing up and facing the challenges that come their way. His observations have helped a lot of individuals to confront their difficulties and lead more fulfilling life. Manson’s Law of Avoidance Manson’s la...