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The “Settle In” Advice for New Jobs Is Dangerous

Introduction  When you join a new company, someone will probably tell you, “Don’t worry. Just take some time to settle in.” It sounds like good advice. After all, starting a new job can be overwhelming. There are new people, processes, systems, expectations, and ways of working. Naturally, you need time to understand your surroundings. But there is a problem with the “settle in” mindset. If you spend your first few months simply waiting to feel comfortable, you may lose the most valuable period of your transition. Your first 90 days are not just a period for settling in. They are a period for learning, building relationships, creating credibility, and understanding how you can make an impact.  Why “Just Settle In” Can Hold You Back  When people are told to settle in, they often become passive. They attend meetings, complete assigned tasks, observe what others are doing, and wait for someone to tell them what they should focus on. There is nothing wrong with observing. In ...

How to Build Confidence (8 Proven Ways To Boost Your Self-Confidence)

Introduction Confidence is one of the most important things that you must have whenever you do anything or whenever you step out in the external world. Many successful people give credit for their success to their self-confidence. But very few people know how to build confidence. We need to work on different things that feed our passion and make us feel happy and proud of who we are. There are eight proven ways to boost your self-confidence. 8 Proven Ways to Boost Your Self-Confidence 1) You Celebrate Yourself: Many people have very low self-esteem and they focus only on things that they did wrong. Thus, they constantly compare themselves with others and have a hard time celebrating themselves even after accomplishing something amazing. Despite being incredibly talented and ambitious, you might still lack the confidence to realize your goals. You need to learn to celebrate yourself and take out time to reflect on all the hard work that you put in accomplishing your goals. 2) Learn Some...