Introduction When you join a new company, someone will probably tell you, “Don’t worry. Just take some time to settle in.” It sounds like good advice. After all, starting a new job can be overwhelming. There are new people, processes, systems, expectations, and ways of working. Naturally, you need time to understand your surroundings. But there is a problem with the “settle in” mindset. If you spend your first few months simply waiting to feel comfortable, you may lose the most valuable period of your transition. Your first 90 days are not just a period for settling in. They are a period for learning, building relationships, creating credibility, and understanding how you can make an impact. Why “Just Settle In” Can Hold You Back When people are told to settle in, they often become passive. They attend meetings, complete assigned tasks, observe what others are doing, and wait for someone to tell them what they should focus on. There is nothing wrong with observing. In ...
Introduction Our parents, teachers, and friends teach us traffic rules, etiquette, and other behavioral traits. But many times, we do not acquire certain important traits from others. Let’s discuss 22 unwritten social rules that everyone must know to survive in society. Unwritten Social Rules We Must Follow 1. Never order an expensive dish from the menu if someone else is giving you a lunch/dinner party. You never know his/her financial condition. 2. Always return borrowed money before the promised time. Don’t give another person a chance to remind you of the return. This shows your character and integrity. 3. Don’t call more than twice and always remember that if another person is not picking up your call then s/he has more important work at hand. 4. Never ask awkward questions like “Why you don’t have your own house ?”, “Ohh are you are still unmarried ?”, “Don’t you have kids ?”, “Why don’t you buy a car?”. Always remember that it’s not our business or problem. Watch this video to u...