Introduction When you join a new company, someone will probably tell you, “Don’t worry. Just take some time to settle in.” It sounds like good advice. After all, starting a new job can be overwhelming. There are new people, processes, systems, expectations, and ways of working. Naturally, you need time to understand your surroundings. But there is a problem with the “settle in” mindset. If you spend your first few months simply waiting to feel comfortable, you may lose the most valuable period of your transition. Your first 90 days are not just a period for settling in. They are a period for learning, building relationships, creating credibility, and understanding how you can make an impact. Why “Just Settle In” Can Hold You Back When people are told to settle in, they often become passive. They attend meetings, complete assigned tasks, observe what others are doing, and wait for someone to tell them what they should focus on. There is nothing wrong with observing. In ...
Introduction When the World Hurt is not a book you read—it’s a space you enter. Liz Moyer Benferhat has crafted something far more intimate than a typical self-help guide. This is a workshop disguised as a manuscript, a shared emotional container between the author, the reader, and the collective human experience. Written between 2018 and 2025—and shaped intensely by the tumultuous years of 2023 to 2025—the book feels like a mirror held up to a world in pain, yet also to a humanity waking up. At its core, this is a book for the people who care deeply, feel intensely, and are tired of oscillating between hope and heartbreak. For those who scroll the news with a knot in the stomach, who lie awake at 3 a.m. wondering what the future holds, and who are torn between staying informed and staying sane—this book is your companion. A Workshop for the Soul Benferhat opens the book with an unusual but compelling framing: this is not a “read and close” experience—it is a workshop. A shared space. ...