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Your First 90 Days in a New Job: How to Stay Confident When Everything Feels Uncertain

Introduction  The hardest part of starting a new job is not always the workload. Sometimes, it is the question that quietly stays in your mind every day: "Am I doing enough?" Starting a new company means starting over in many ways. You have new colleagues, new systems, new expectations, new processes, and a completely different environment to understand. Even experienced professionals can feel uncertain during this transition. You may find yourself overthinking emails, meetings, conversations with your manager, or small mistakes. You may assume that you are stressed because there is too much work. But often, the real problem is uncertainty. Your brain naturally looks for familiarity. When everything around you is new, even simple responsibilities can feel more difficult than they actually are.  Stop Trying to Prove Everything at Once  Many professionals enter a new company believing they need to prove themselves immediately. They want to demonstrate their knowledge, impre...

The Story of Nachiketa – Intensity on the Spiritual Path

The Story of Nachiketa – Intensity on the Spiritual Path
Introduction

The story of Nachiketa from the Katha Upanishad is one of the most profound lessons in focus, sincerity, and determination. Though deeply spiritual, its relevance extends far beyond — offering timeless wisdom for leaders, professionals, and anyone navigating today’s fast-paced corporate world.

Nachiketa was a young boy whose father once undertook a yagna (sacred ritual) where everything one owned was to be given away in charity for spiritual merit. But instead of giving away his best possessions, Nachiketa’s father chose only the old and useless things.

The boy, though only five years old, recognized the lack of integrity in his father’s actions. Courageously, he questioned his father: "If you truly vowed to give away everything, why are you keeping the valuable possessions back? Whom will you give me to?"

Irritated, his father angrily retorted: “I give you to Yama, the Lord of Death.”

Taking this seriously, Nachiketa set out to meet Yama. When he arrived, Yama was away. The child waited outside his abode without food or water for three days. His patience, discipline, and unwavering focus impressed Yama, who upon returning, offered him three boons.

First Boon: Nachiketa asked for his father’s peace of mind and material well-being.

Second Boon: He sought knowledge of the sacred fire rituals that lead to spiritual growth.

Third Boon: He demanded to know the ultimate truth — “What happens after death?”

Yama resisted the third request. He offered wealth, kingdoms, pleasures, and everything worldly instead. But Nachiketa stood firm: “All these things are temporary. I want only the truth.”

His unshakable determination eventually compelled Yama to share the knowledge of life, death, and the eternal self. Nachiketa attained enlightenment becoming one of the earliest and greatest seekers in Indian tradition.

Integrity, Courage, and Intensity for Lasting Success

For today’s corporate professionals, Nachiketa’s story serves as a timeless reminder: true success is built on integrity, courage, and intensity. Integrity ensures credibility, courage enables asking tough but necessary questions, and intensity fuels perseverance in the face of challenges. Just as Nachiketa chose long-term truth over short-term pleasures, leaders and professionals too must prioritize sustainable growth, ethical choices, and focused effort over quick wins and superficial gains.

 

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