Introduction In today’s fast-moving world, it has become incredibly easy to confuse “looking successful” with actually being successful. Society constantly tells us what should impress us—luxurious items, high-end lifestyles, and symbols that are supposed to show status. But as we grow, reflect, and face real responsibilities, we slowly realize that what society celebrates doesn't always match what brings true peace and fulfillment. This difference between what looks good and what actually feels good is where many people spend their entire lives struggling. We chase the world’s applause and forget the quiet joys that genuinely make life meaningful. Let’s explore these two sides clearly— what society thinks is cool vs. what is actually cool , and what truly creates a fulfilled and peaceful life. What Society Thinks Is Cool 1. The Newest iPhone Every year, a new phone launches—and suddenly millions feel like their perfectly working phone is outdated. Society has taught us that upgr...
Let us first know what famous people said about criticism: Abraham Lincoln : “Don’t criticize them; they are just what we would be under similar circumstances”. Confucious : " Don't complain about the snow on the roof of the neighbors if your door is unclean". Benjamin Franklin : " Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do". Lets us read a story of Francis Crowley or popularly known as "Two-Gun" Crowley. He was a serial murderer of New York and he also robbed a New Rochelle Bank. On the day he was encountered by New York Police he was enjoying at his girlfriend's home. 300 policemen surrounded the building and bullet started flowing from both sides but when Crowley identified that his bullets are finishing, he had written a letter. In that letter, he had written that " Yes he knows that he is a killer, but he has a kind heart under his coat, a heart that does no harm". Yes, you read it correctly he identifi...