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Things You Believed as a Kid That Are Completely Wrong

Introduction  Growing up, we accept the world exactly as it is explained to us. As children, we trust parents, teachers, elders, cartoons, and textbooks without hesitation. If something is said confidently enough, we believe it must be true. Questioning feels unnecessary—after all, why would adults be wrong? But adulthood has a funny way of revealing the truth. As we grow older, we slowly realize that many things we believed as kids were not facts at all. They were myths, half-truths, or oversimplified explanations passed down for convenience, discipline, or storytelling. Some of these ideas were harmless, while others shaped how we thought about our bodies, intelligence, and the world around us. Unlearning these myths is part of growing up. It sharpens our thinking and reminds us of an important life lesson: just because something is widely believed doesn’t mean it’s true. Let’s revisit some of the most common childhood myths that turned out to be completely wrong.  1. Bulls ...

8 Ways To Create Flow According to Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

Introduction Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi is a famous happiness researcher. He chose to become that due to the adversities that he faced growing up being a prisoner during World War II. During this time, he saw the pain and suffering of a large number of people around him. After going through all these difficulties, he wanted to know more about happiness and contentment. Csikszentmihalyi interviewed various people, who described that their optimal states of performance occurred when their work simply without much effort flowed out of them. Due to this, he developed the term “flow state”, in the flow psychology of optimal experience. 8 Ways To Create Flow According To Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi 1) Must have clear goals and immediate feedback: The first way of creating flow in flow psychology of optimal experience is to have clear goals. You need to have a clear finish line if you want to go into flow. Also, you should give yourself immediate feedback on the effectiveness of your actions. If you...

Scarcity Mindset vs Abundance Mindset

Introduction Mind is the most powerful tool and your Mindset is the most important component of your success in life. In a study by Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck, the mindset of young students was examined in which she found that children with a growth mindset who believed that intelligence can be developed were able to overcome academic challenges better than those with a fixed mindset that the intelligence of a person is predetermined. Stephen Covey mentioned about Scarcity Mindset and Abundance Mindset in his best-selling book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Scarcity mentality refers to people amongst whom, one person takes a big piece and leaves less for everyone else whereas, in abundance mindset, they believe that there is plenty out there for everybody. Steps to shift from Scarcity Mindset to an Abundance Mindset? 1.) Focus on what you have Ideas like you aren’t doing good job or you don’t have transferable skills, are all based on scarcity in which you focus more ...