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7 Types of Loneliness Nobody Talks About

Introduction When people hear the word "loneliness," they often imagine someone sitting alone in an empty room with nobody to talk to. While that is certainly one form of loneliness, the reality is far more complex. Loneliness is not always about physical isolation. Sometimes, it exists in crowded rooms, busy workplaces, successful careers, and even loving relationships.  It can quietly settle into our lives without anyone noticing. It often hides behind smiles, achievements, responsibilities, and daily routines. The most difficult part about loneliness is that many forms of it are invisible. They are hard to explain because, from the outside, everything may appear perfectly normal. Yet internally, there can be a deep sense of disconnection, emptiness, or longing. The truth is that loneliness is a universal human experience.  Most people encounter it at different stages of life, but few talk about it openly. Understanding these hidden forms of loneliness can help us realize t...

8 Ways To Create Flow According to Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

Introduction Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi is a famous happiness researcher. He chose to become that due to the adversities that he faced growing up being a prisoner during World War II. During this time, he saw the pain and suffering of a large number of people around him. After going through all these difficulties, he wanted to know more about happiness and contentment. Csikszentmihalyi interviewed various people, who described that their optimal states of performance occurred when their work simply without much effort flowed out of them. Due to this, he developed the term “flow state”, in the flow psychology of optimal experience. 8 Ways To Create Flow According To Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi 1) Must have clear goals and immediate feedback: The first way of creating flow in flow psychology of optimal experience is to have clear goals. You need to have a clear finish line if you want to go into flow. Also, you should give yourself immediate feedback on the effectiveness of your actions. If you...

Scarcity Mindset vs Abundance Mindset

Introduction Mind is the most powerful tool and your Mindset is the most important component of your success in life. In a study by Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck, the mindset of young students was examined in which she found that children with a growth mindset who believed that intelligence can be developed were able to overcome academic challenges better than those with a fixed mindset that the intelligence of a person is predetermined. Stephen Covey mentioned about Scarcity Mindset and Abundance Mindset in his best-selling book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Scarcity mentality refers to people amongst whom, one person takes a big piece and leaves less for everyone else whereas, in abundance mindset, they believe that there is plenty out there for everybody. Steps to shift from Scarcity Mindset to an Abundance Mindset? 1.) Focus on what you have Ideas like you aren’t doing good job or you don’t have transferable skills, are all based on scarcity in which you focus more ...